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WAVE  4: ESSENTIALS OF BHAKTI:

AN ADVANCED LESSON FOR THE FAITHFUL

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There is a misguided feeling among parents of modern children growing in the western world that stories about wolves, rabbits and piggies are the only right things for the children. Maybe it is so. But the Hindu mythological stories have a peculiar fascination for children below 8 and it is during that time all these stories should be narrated to them. It is that time they would believe them. At 18 it would be too late, but if they had heard about them for the first time before they were 8, and had been believing them, they would start asking the right questions at 18; at 28 they would probably develop a little interest in understanding the significance of these stories and at 38 they may start having some faith and giving them a benefit of doubt. And it is at 48 they would start understanding them and cherishing them, if nothing else, for the noble values that they uphold.  We may hope that at 58, they would themselves start telling these stories to their grandchildren with a total commitment! Whether one likes it or not, this is how Hindu tradition in India has been preserved over the centuries.  And if we want to preserve it in a new continent, one should start rightaway. Since Hindu children abroad may not have the luxury of their grandparents living with them always, it is the double responsibility of parents of such children to act both as parents and grandparents for this purpose.

 

Leaving mythology aside, we have during historical time numberless devotees of the Lord on the Indian soil and every one of them has lived an exemplary life of devotion. Bhakti itself came to be defined by their actions and pronouncements.  No treatise on Bhakti need to be studied. One has only to read the biographies of a Thiagaraja, an Appar, a Mira, a Ramadoss, a Kabir, a Vedanta Desika, a Prabhupada, a Ramana or a Ramakrishna and scores of several other towering giants of Spirituality. Every one of their lives would show how devotion is always followed by the descent of the Grace of God on the devotee. That does not mean, however, that the devotee does not suffer in his material life.

In any theory of Grace it is the surrender to God’s Will and humility that matter. And we have to surrender by our own free will. Man has the free will to obey or disobey God. The so-called fatalist view in religion is only a fragmentary part of Hinduism. But somehow it has been bloated to a large extent and Hinduism has been accused both from its own votaries and from outside that it emphasizes fate. No. Because of the vAsanAs we have brought along with us in the journey through several lives, we are born with a particular parentage, in a particular environment and a particular sex. Our fate is reflected mainly in our tendencies that we have created for ourselves through our past actions. When someone says, ‘I cannot resist having coffee at this particular time’, he simply means ‘I have taken coffee at this particular time of day every day for several years in the past and so my system is tuned to having it at this time’. An elaboration of this concept, generalised to our past, through several of our lives, is the vAsanA theory. Fate does not influence anything except our tendencies. Everything else is our making in this life of ours.  We have total free will to surrender to God or not. But if we surrender to Him with all our heart and soul, He promises that He will take of our Yoga, security, and kshema, well-being. Whosoever offers to Me with love, a leaf, a flower, a fruit or even water, says the Lord, I shall partake of his offering and bless him. So we have only to purify the feeling behind every act of worship of ours in order to win His Grace. And the Lord continues, whatever you do, you dedicate it to Me.   Whatever you do in your daily life, in your annual life, in your special life, in your official life, in your private life, in your social life, in your internal mental life, dedicate everything to Me and I will do the Magic of purifying them, says the Lord.

If that feeling of bhakti is so important, why can’t God Himself give me that feeling?this is a standard question that strikes many of us  who listen to all this. God certainly grants that bhakti. But we have to receive it. If our minds are closed, we may not receive it even when it pours. He keeps on pouring His love but very often we do not look to Him for that Love. Actually He waits and waits until we take the first step towards Him out of our own free will. Why should He submit Himself to this ‘agony’ of waiting for His children to become His devotees is one of the mysteries of God. In His ‘agony’ He grabs you even when you take a simple step towards Him. He assumes that you have already, in the words of Thiagaraja, cried to Him:

 

kAlaharaNa mela rA, ....

dina dina munu tirigi tirigi

dikku leku saraNu jochi

tanuvu danamu deyari ....

 

meaning, ‘I have wandered day in and day out, finding refuge nowhere; I have sought your feet and surrendered myself, body and its possessions, as your own; ... why this delay in blessing me?’ So He grabs us, even though we have just mildly turned towards Him, like a blotting paper which the fountain pen has just touched with its tip! He consumes us with His love.

But even when we have become His devotees, we want only petty things from Him and sometimes He keeps giving us the petty things we want, so that in due time  we would want what He wants to give us all. All our temples, gods and goddesses and the innumerable ways by which we may propitiate the divine in these places of worship, as well as the uncountable methods of offering our private prayers, with or without the ritualistic mantras – all of them have that one objective, that we should ultimately want to go back to where we came from, that is, merge in Him and His glory.

 

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